Non-custodial support; Why it is not a gender issue....

What is the one thing that those of us who are having problems with the family courts and/or CPS have in common??? We are non-custodial parents



What exactly makes a person non-custodial??



The reason is different for just about every case. Some similarities or methods, but why allow that little difference divide us into cliques??



I was asked why its important for NCDs (non-custodial dads) should support NCMs.......



My question is; Why not?



We need rallies and events on nationwide levels that can be done in whatever town, in whatever state. There are micro-rallies, and lighting candles around the world, fatherless day. After holding a fatherless day rally, I received allot of correspondence asking about or requesting a motherless day. The more rallies the better right?? We do need a unified public demonstration system that is consistent and includes all aspects of what we are protesting for. EQUAL PARENTING



Of course we should try to focus allot of our attention on our state capitol buildings. However, not everyone can always go that far for every rally. Some states' geography makes that difficult. Any of these rallies can be held in your town square and be just as effective......

Motherless day and Fatherless day respectively are based on the holidays; Mothers Day and Fathers Day. We cannot ignore the need for supporting those parents who cannot see their children on these days. No matter what statistics you have, it still hurts regardless of gender. I believe that the biggest thing that is preventing forward progress is how people hold their animosity for their exes and it carries on in how they relate to people of that gender. Until we unify regardless of our pain we will go nowhere.

Lets support each other. We all hurt when we are taken away from our children for no reason. Corruption sees no gender, it only sees $$...... The more we fight, over such petty details the longer it will take for reform. Our true enemies laugh at us all the way to the bank. This will happen until we become a unified force.